It’s About Connection, Not Perfection
Gone are the days when being a “good parent” meant following a rigid set of rules. Today, it’s all about connection. Kids don’t need perfect parents—they need parents who are present. This means sitting down to play with them, asking about their day, or simply laughing together over silly jokes. Building a strong, loving bond is what truly makes an impact, and it’s often found in the smallest, everyday moments.
Try this today: Write your child a short, heartfelt note about something you admire in them and leave it where they can find it.
Be Flexible and Open to Change
If parenting had a motto today, it might be “evolve or dissolve.” From navigating the latest apps and online trends to understanding a rapidly changing world, parents have to be more flexible than ever. Maybe your child’s favorite hobby changes every week, or their questions about the world leave you stumped. That’s okay. Being a good parent means growing alongside your child and embracing the unexpected.
Try this today: Disconnect from your devices and be open to letting your child teach you something they’re passionate about, whether it’s a game, a TikTok trend, or a new skill.
Mental Health is a Family Affair
Mental health has taken center stage in parenting, and for good reason. Supporting your child’s emotional well-being isn’t just important—it’s essential. But it doesn’t stop there. Prioritizing your own mental health is just as crucial. After all, how can you pour into your child’s cup if yours is empty? Self-care isn’t selfish; it’s a vital part of showing up as your best self for your family.
Try this today: Create a “calm corner” at home with cozy blankets, books, pillows and/or sensory toys for anyone to use when they feel overwhelmed. (This includes you!)
Embrace Imperfection
One of the biggest myths of modern parenting is that you have to do it all flawlessly. Let’s set the record straight: Perfection doesn’t exist. The best parents make mistakes, lose their temper, and forget the occasional school lunch (or two)! But those moments teach kids important lessons about resilience, forgiveness, and the beauty of trying again. Being there, day in and day out, is what truly matters.
Try this today: Share a story with your child about a mistake you made and what you learned from it.
Find Your Village
No parent should have to go it alone, and that’s where community comes in. If you’re looking for a safe, nonjudgmental space to share your parenting journey, Cuyahoga Parents Connect is here for you. Our Facebook parenting group is a place where local parents and caregivers can share advice, find resources, and connect with others who understand the ups and downs of raising kids. Whether you’re celebrating a win or need support on a tough day, this community has your back.
Try this today: Join the Cuyahoga Parents Connect Facebook Group and post a question, tip, or parenting win to start a conversation.
About the Author:
Heather Sakai has been a member of the Bright Beginnings team since early 2022, serving as the Social Media Engagement Coordinator. She holds a Master of Science in Social Service Administration and a Master of Arts in Contemporary Dance from Case Western Reserve University. Heather brings experience in social work and mood disorders research, marketing and social media, as well as dance instruction for children and adults in both the United States and abroad.
Passionate about connecting people through social media, Heather strives to make it a safe space to ask questions, be vulnerable, and share successes and struggles. She is also the administrator of Cuyahoga Parents Connect and warmly invites you to join if you are a parent or caregiver of a child from birth to kindergarten, or if you are expecting a child.